Skip to main content

Lessons with Manny- Playing Basketball


Last week Emmanuel's basketball season ended with his all-star game. East vs. West in the city we live in. But the season didn't start out the same. It was his 4th season playing basketball, But his first season with the bigger age group. This age group was something he had looked forward to since he started pee-wee basketball at age 4. In this group, he would actually have more than one team practice a week, play full court and have the opportunity to be picked for the all star team.

When he was put on a team,, it was a bit frustrating. He had a brand new coach who was struggling coaching them, he had kids on the team who could not focus, and despite being the most experienced on the team, he was the smallest. There was a lot of practice to do.

A lot of practice. They scheduled lots of practices during the week and they all seemed to improve. Emmanuel became a pro at dribbling, running more since now they were playing full court., and shooting with more power since now the baskets were taller. They didn't win every game, And a lot of the other teams seemed more organized, more prepared, and better overall, It was frustrating and as a 6 year old kid, he wanted to quit.

But as weeks went by, they got better. They became more focused, more of a team. And Emmanuel forgot about quitting. He was becoming more of a leader on the court. He wasn't the biggest or the best, but his practice made him better and he was always there to lead his teammates on defense. By their last game, they looked like pros. The same team they had struggled against at the beginning of the season, were now struggling to score against our team, the Brooklyn Nets.

Emmanuel's persistence, practice and dedication also paid off, He was one of 2 kids from his team to be picked for the East All Star team. We were ecstatic! However, the first practice with his all-star team, was about to create more frustration. He went from being one of the best on his team, to playing with the best of the best. Older kids, taller kids and more experienced kids, He went from being a starter to coming off the bench. It was an adjustment, and for a kid i could see his frustration.

I learned a lot this season! The things that we go through with Emmanuel always seem to remind us of something to apply in our own lives.
I learned.....practice and hard work does pay off. This little boy improved. His team improved. The team that played the first game and the last game were two completely different teams. All because they took what their coach taught them and put it into practice. Same way we ought to practice what God teaches us.


"Philippians 4:9
“Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me – put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.”





I learned that we all have different roles. Some kids were point guards, forward, center, and shooting guards. All played a role in winning a game for their team. They all needed each other. Same way we need each other in the body of Christ.






I pray you are encouraged to continue in the role God has given you. You may not be the best, but you can ve the best You in the role that is assigned to you I encourage you to continue to practice the lessons God has taught you. And I pray you continue to persevere. It wont be easy. It may be frustrating. Don't compare yourself to others, keep your eyes on Jesus.... He's already picked you to be on His all star team!


Love, Meli    


Comments

Popular posts from this blog

16 and Married!

       As most of you may already know, I wasn't 16 and pregnant, like the popular MTV show. Instead I was 16 and married. Yes married before I graduated, or officially got my driving license. Married before I got an actual job and before I knew what marriage was really going to require.     I met my husband my freshman year in high school and for many months only looked at him as a friend to share my "boy" drama with. But after many lunches, conversations, hanging out, inviting him to my church, dancing at my quince, and skipping many electives together, I was in love with my homeboy, my friend. And all of a sudden, all the guys that I was entertaining as potential suitors didn't matter anymore. Not after Emerald called my house on a Tuesday night while I was watching American Idol, to confess his love for me. I remember seeing his family name on the caller I.D and almost falling off my bed to get the phone to tell him my sister wasn't home. My

Like ME!

How many likes will this get? Living in the social media age we live in, its often a question we ask before posting anything. A thought, our lunch, a new outfit, or an accomplishment in school or our career. Last week in school, my son was nominated to run for president of his kindergarten class as they learned about president's day. When he came home he told me he wasn't sure if they liked him and would vote for him. Of course, with me, that sparked a life conversation with him. "Not everyone is going to like you Manny, and that's ok!". I could even hear my moms voice in my head (in Spanish of course) telling me the very same thing growing up. I had to reassure him that all he could do was keep being the Emmanuel he is. With all his knowledge, likes, dislikes, habits, and mannerisms that are individual to him; he has to know he doesn't need anybody's approval to be just that. (except his parent's right now, but authority is another topic). I&#

Love Does......

With Memorial day coming up and Emmanuel telling me all about learning about the armed forces and the sacrifices our troops make, I couldn't help but think about what Love does. They say there is no greater love than that which would lay their own life down for another, so for that great sacrifice lets thank all those who are serving and those who have served or lost their life while doing so. Funny thing, is that in the past week I also heard a song about love like no other. About love doing things not for who may see, or what we may get but just because love Does. Love is an action, a commitment, a decision to do and not just say or "feel". Not all of us are called to serve in the military nor will we always have the chance to physically lay our life down for others, but Loving is something we all get to do! Loving in my marriage and as mother, has taught me how sacrificial it ought to be. Even with the man I chose to marry, and the kids that came from my womb a